So I have a question for someone I know she got married at 18 and the husband was 19 later on the road told her he wanted to turn into woman. She's was a new reborn Christian so she barely knew much about God and all but He was a Christian a some point in his teens. but he walked away from God when he saw his parents split from divorce and his dad getting with another woman shortly after. also becuase he kinda got very weary of asking God to help with the abuse of his mother always telling him he should be dead or that he looked just like his father and always hitting him or throwing things. He dated a Christian girl that he really cared for but her parents always kept him from him and even called the cops and put a restestion order because they didn't like the fact that he wasn't a Christian anymore. anyways later on he meet the other Christian girl and falls deeply for her and get married to her but in the start he was afraid it would be broken apart by her own family. Needless to say he got married with her just right after she come Christian & got baptized in water. They weren't supposed to be legally marrie since their marriage certificate got filled up so wrong and was a mess so they were told by the court for almost 1 year that no they weren't married. And a year later it turned out they were after all. By then they had no relationship but he wanted to try things with her again everything was fine until he came back up with he had decide he didn't want to be a guy and had been taken medince. told her he still loved her then later told her I don't love you. then I love you again then told her you know what I'm going sign the divorce so do me a favor go and find yourself someone else that can love you and make you happy for I can't and plus I want someone strong and a man to be with me. after you found a man to make you happy get married for now it's going to hurt. which it did for her. And she did exactly as he asked her but later on he was able to talk to her 2 times one to get paper she needed from him for legal purposes and that day he told her she was always showing up in the wrong moments and she was always wrong timing. And the other time was on the phone shortly after she got married because she didn't have anyone else to go to in order to get the help she needed becuase she was very depressed that day so he told her I saw you got married.. She said yes I did. He told her you didnt even wait to get married. like he had resentment towards that a couple a weeks after that he got with someone. Anyways now his with a man and has his name legally changed. And her she's with the guy she married but that marriage took a 360 turn quick becuase the guy has a sexual addiction to porn and getting nudes and making woman think they are with him a relationship or about to get married to him just to get nudes. Now she feels like she should of waited a bit longer and kept praying for the first person she was with. Question would God take the first guy she made a vow to in front of her pastor and family , as her actual spouse marriage? or would God take the second one as her actual spouse and marrriage. She got married because she had alot of conformations that the second one was the spouse God had for her after she got divorce and that God was telling her pastor to tell her she had go get divorced that God was wanting it that was becuase he had spoken to him about it. She feels bad for the divorce and she wished she would of waited.