Ttc need some advice

Sara
I have aps ( blood clot disorder) hubby and i went to see speclist to see y we cant get prego bc we been trying a year
I can get prego but im going have a hard time getting prego doctor told me i have 2% getting prego natual and 10% w <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a> or <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a>  if i do get prego i be in hospital at 14 wks till baby is due 
Idk what to do 
Adpotion  surrgant 
I heard pro cons with adpotion 
Hubby said if we have adpot he wants a baby/kid in usa
Anyone adpoted a baby ?