Did he cheat? Should I be mad?

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Okay ladies, so last night my boyfriend came to my house and he left early around 10 because he "had to go meet his friend (a guy) so i just went to sleep after he left. When I woke up, I had messages from a girl telling me that him and another girl (she is supposedly a lesbian) were riding around together around midnight. then i found out that they spent the night together. he thinks I shouldn't be mad because "she is a guy". IDC IF SHE IS A LESBIAN OR NOT THAT DOES NOT MAKE HER A BOY! Should I be mad or let it go??

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Just the fact that he lied is super shady.

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I would be mad considering he wasn't honest about the fact that it was a girl even if she is a lesbian. It would different if he said he was hanging out with her instead of saying he was hanging out with a guy. Lesbians aren't guys, they're girls who like girls, even if she is extremely butch.

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my boyfriend knows how jealous I am. he is well aware even if it's a girl that's a no no. Also shady he didn't tell you. Why did the girl message you? that's strange in my opinion.

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He would've told the truth if nothing was going on between them.

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you have a right to be mad

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I would idc if she identifies as a guy or s girl that likes guys. He didn't tell her it was a girl for a reason. He told her it was a guy. He didn't tell her it was girl that identifies as guy. He didn't say lesbo. He said guy so fuck yea I would be mad.

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You should be mad he lied AND she slept over so...something has to be going on, especially since they were hanging out so late. He should've sent her home its disrespectful to have her sleeping over if he knows he's in a relationship. The fact that he left you to go hang out with another girl is even worse. I'd be pissed off idgaf if she's a lesbian the fact that he lied gives you the right to be mad.

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So does this person identify as a guy? If so then no you shouldn't be mad. Well imo even if this person identifies as a girl then I still wouldn't be mad because a friend is a friend regardless of gender.

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Damn that's a tough one
he should have been honest becasue she is still a girl even if she likes girls too, and why was he hanging out with her and not you? weird

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It's shady that he lied however if they were just hanging out I guess it fine but if nothing was going on then why'd he lie??🙄🤷🏻‍♀️

Did he cheat? Should I be mad?

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