I have been single for over a year, why? Because I choose to be. I refuse to be in a relationship with anybody until I fix the current problems that I have in my life and within myself. I don't want to drag somebody else into my life when I can't give them my all because my heart isn't fully healed from my last relationship. I don't want to be with anybody until I know that I'm completely past this bad place in my life. Not to mention I'm taking this time to focus on myself, my son, and my future.