Did a blow job and tight thigh penetration with my boyfriend...did not go all the way to intercourse. Am i still considered a virgin..or nah 😐

Question

So i have always planed to wait on sex till marraige. But this one day i just slipped up..and gave my boyfriend a blowjob..oddly enough i literally enjoyed it. No swallow of course so we kept giving each other head..and he did this thing of penetrating my thigh gap..very tideous but any way..i feel really half and half..since i have done other sexual things but not actual sexual penetration..am even confused writing right now😂😂

What is you take on this!?

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I know everyone says that virginity is a social construct and that it all depends on what you consider sex to be, but honestly, as Christians, this kind of relative thinking doesn't apply to us. As Christians, no, you would not be considered a virgin. You had sex with your boyfriend. There's nothing you can do about that now except to not do it again. We all have struggles and it's really difficult for anyone to resist sexual temptation. We all mess up (and trust me, what you've done is nothing compared to what I've done in my life, so I'm not judging).

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You've had oral sex, a form of sexual intercourse, therefore you're no longer pure/a virgin. Being a virgin would mean no one has seen or touched you sexually. There have to be boundaries in order to stay committed to waiting until marriage, otherwise it's only a matter of time before you give into the real thing. Just a lil food for thought. Also, I'm not judging you; just to be clear. Although my personal Godly advice would be to abstain completely until marriage, I understand you are your own person and what you do is between you and God. Just make sure the person you do that with is clean. You can still get std's from oral sex and herpes is forever! Signs and symptoms will show up up on females more often than males as our skin is a lot thinner down there and not as dry as males genitalia. So a doctor has said. Lol

Did a blow job and tight thigh penetration with my boyfriend...did not go all the way to intercourse. Am i still considered a virgin..or nah 😐

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