My boyfriend who is my sons father picks and chooses when he wants to watch him. He has been off work for three weeks now and I still have to take him to the baby sitters. He says that that's why we have a baby sitter. I do all the shopping me and my son. I play with him. He doesnt even change his diaper. And mind you he has two other kids from a different woman who he sees on weekends. Oh my goodness I'm the parent all the time and hes not. Our son is 11 months old. It gets so old.