So back story. I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant, newly married, and living my life as a doon to be SAHM( not use to that) my husband is the man of my dreams! He is perfect in every way. Before I was with my husband I was in an mentally abusive and controlling relationship I lost complete sight of who I was, lost friends, felt trapped, and really feared the person I was with. Before everything went bad, I decided to get a tattoo of my EX name on my wrist (19 and dumb) but I thought I was in love (He was 14 years older than me) things were going great then they went down hill. I was constantly being manipulated. So on to the tattoo idea. I was thinking of getting like a cage with thorns and chains surrounding it, that is broke off, with the caged door open and an humming bird flying out of it with a ball and chain breaking from its feet. Is thst to depressing? Like I need opinions as I'm planning to get it a few months after my son is born. I'm tired of looking at this tattoo on my wrist and do is my husband it brings back so much pain