My husband and I just got married in July, but we've been together for 7 years. so we have been to the female strippers (whom are fully nude)twice also with other of our friends. last time we went my husband disappeared and I found out he had gone back into a private room with one of them. Do i have a right to be upset about that? *****UPDATE***** 1st off thank you everyone for all the great advice/opinions! it definitely helps to see others point of views. We did talk about it the next day and he said he didn't even think about it upsetting me in that moment. He apologized and said he could see where he crossed the line and we have both agreed to not go to the strippers anytime in the near future. thank you all for your input!