Baby's father🤷🏻‍♀️

Where should I start? My baby's father and I dated 2 months. We learned that I conceived after we broke up, I was 4 weeks pregnant. Two weeks later, he came over and pulled me off the bed I didn't get hurt. It scared me tho. He calmed I was fake crying, that was two days before my appointment. so right after the doctors appointment I made him go home. Basically we barely had any contact cause I was so mad at him for that. Now I'm 16 weeks pregnant, he's saying he has doubts about the baby since I don't want to be with him. He wants to come over, but I'm still iffy about it. However I told him he can come Around the baby when the baby's born. Just not to take the baby to his house since he lives 45 minutes away from me. My question should I let him come over?? When should I let him? Or tell him no that he cant but can come to the next doctors appointment? This is my first child and I only want what's best for him or her. Please no mean comments. Thanks. 😊