Gynecologist visit

Okay so i had my daughter 6.5 years ago. When I had her I was young and dumb. I had never been to a gyno before getting pregnant and to be completely honest I haven't been back since my 6 week check up. My original gyno honestly tried killing me. Didn't listen to anything I had to say and let me go 4 weeks past due (the only reason I was induced was because she went on vacation!) after being induced that late my body wouldn't go in to labor so I had an emergency c-section. The dr that did my c-section was an absolute god send. I loved him. But he retired and now I dread finding a doctor that doesn't think I'm an absolute jackass for not going in so long.

The real question here is, has anyone not been to the gyno in this long and had trouble conceiving ? We're finally ready to have another and I feel like nothing's working.