So 4 days ago I had my baby boy, and he's beautiful, and amazing, and I've never been happier.. However, I feel like I've had a baby for everyone else, no one seems to wonder how I'm doing etc, just all about my partner and my baby, I understand as it's mainly his family (i don't have alot of family or friends) but things like when his sister and mum visit they help themselves to the baby and hold him for hours and don't even speak to me.. I'm supposed to be going to his familys house for the day this week but I just really don't want to go, I sort of want my baby to be mine for a little while you know? Is this selfish? I feel bad and I understand it's all exciting and everyone wants to be around him etc but I just want some alone time just me and him and maybe just someone to ask if it's ok to just wake him and pick him up rather than assuming they can because they are family. Sorry about the rant.