Confused...

My hubby has issues down there for the past year. We got pregnant somehow and expecting soon. I told him I'm going to get my tubes tied so no more babies. He said no need to cause we don't need to do it anymore. We're no longer intimate...not even hugs anymore. Breaks my heart cause I'm a giant balloon right now and need emotion support too. He doesn't like talking about it. He has seen a doctor but that's as far as he'll go. We are considered a pretty young couple. Sometimes I feel like he's just not interested in me anymore. We live like roommates. He sleeps on his end of the bed and me on my end. We have other little kids and they fill the missing love in my heart. I hint to him that my foot is swollen and my back and body are achy, but I get no response or offers for a message. My little daughter heard me and rubbed my feet for me. Love her to pieces! I should be happy but I'm feeling hurt. He knows better. We've been through pregnancies together before. 😢 Maybe it's true that you grow tired of each other as you get older. We don't watch movies at home together anymore because he doesn't tell me anymore when he does. Little things like these are drifting me away. All I think about now are my kids and how to raise them the best way I can. 😞 I'm not going to try anymore.