Social services

Social services have recently placed my 3 children on child protection, there actually is no reason as to why the children should be placed on it they only are because I have done so much disengaging. And they were concerned I'm hiding something. But after getting to know me and seeing that I dont there's just a list of rediculous things I have to do in order to get the kids back off it. They are currently paying for me to place my one year old daughter in day care twice a week. But I dont feel like it's necessary as I'm here to look after her. That place could go to someone who works. It just dosent make me feel comfortable. Can they take my kids off me if I refuse this placement in day care? EDITED** they became involved to begin with to offer me support for history of depression. But it was too late, I'd past my depression and felt very let down and betrayed by social services when my son was abused by his father and I seeked there help. So I refused to engage. And because I had told my midwife I disengage from professionals when I'm low in mood, they hung on to that. So now when I disengage. I must be low in mood. I said that back when I was depressed. And my kids weren't removed for whoever said that. Otherwise I wouldnt be being asked to put my daughter into day care twice a week. Thats apparently to give me support. That I don't need.