Why would anyone want a threesome with their partners?

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Honestly I just don't get it and I've seen girls on here talking about "my husband/Bf want a threesome, should I do it?" Or "I had a threesome and I got jealous blah blah" or the guy ended up cheating. Why would anyone want that? And why would you allow your partner to disrespect you like that? To me, it sounds like cheating without being guilty for it. Also if my partner wants someone else, I wouldn't even want to be with him. I don't mean it the bad way, I am just really curious how do people think about threesomes.

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I don't think it's fair for anyone to judge another relationships sexual activities considering you aren't the one participating in their sexual adventures. As long as it's a consensual act between adults, it doesn't matter if anyone doesn't "get it".

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News flash, just because you like things in a particular way does not mean everyone else has to be the same.
Couples can have a strong relationship exploring their sexual interests.  However insecurities and poor communication can cause trouble like any other normal relationship.
Fair enough you don't get it or like it but don't make everyone else as ignorant or wrong for exploring.  3somes for many people is not cheating as well as porn or looking at woman which others may deem as cheating in their personal views.  
Think you need to do something else with your time than worry what other people do personally.

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I agree 100%. The thought of me with anyone else makes my partner sick and vise versa. I will never understand how people in relationships are cool with letting there partner be with someone else, but everyone likes different things I suppose🤷‍♀️

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I've had threesomes with my boyfriend and another girl and I loved it. It made our sex life a lot more fun and it turned me on knowing I fulfilled my boyfriends fantasy. We did it with a girl I trusted 100%. I'm bisexual though so maybe that's why I was okay with it. If you're not bi or even bi curious then I can totally see where you're coming from. But being a bi girl, I absolutely love having threesomes and we plan on having more after baby comes. I don't want to have one with another guy because I don't like to be dominated by anyone but my boyfriend. I enjoy dominating the girl so to each their own I guess. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Nope. I respect others and their choice to do it but as far as me, nope. I can't even begin to think how I'd react if my boyfriend ever asked me to participate in one. I'd probably die five times. I know he wouldn't. He understands what my limits are

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If my boyfriend asked for that he wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore. Not because someone's "fantasies" are wrong just they are wrong for me. I don't want to be with someone who wants/thinks about someone other than me and that's ok too.

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OH GOD NO!

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UUUGGGGHHHH 
Why is it when someone is talking about a threesome they ALWAYS only talk about two girls and one guy?? Are you just so vanilla that you can't fathom two guys one girl? Or all girls while your guy just watches? Or all men while you just watch?? 
Seriously. There's more than one way to have a threesome. And personally I'd be cool with two guys one girl. I think that'd be fucking awesome (pun intended). 
Why? Because having sex doesn't diminish your partners respect for you. And if it does, you're with the wrong guy.

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So my partner recently brought this up with me when we were wasted- but the whole night he kept talking about my friend doing a threesome with us. Where we were pretty fucked on mdma we weren’t talking much sense to eachother but even then I’d be saying something and he’d bring the three way back up without me even talking about it- meaning it was playing on his mind as we were fucked up and I could clearly see this. I don’t wanna do it and he knows this but I don’t know why he wants to

Why would anyone want a threesome with their partners?

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