waxing/shaving

Brie

so for some reason my mum has never let me shave or wax my vag (i still shave sometimes) and if i mention that i want to do it she straight away assumes that i'm gonna take nudes. anyways i'll be seeing my boyfriend soon and i don't want to shave because i get razor burn and i don't want the hair to grow thicker, but i can't get a wax because my mum won't let me. are there any other discrete ways i can do it?