wow family visiting are a piece of work

my husbands aunts come over today and the one aunt comes over telling me to hand my baby over. I asked her to go sit on the couch and I would bring my baby to her. she said no I will carry her. I said NO i will bring her to you. she says NO I want to bring her to the kitchen and drink coffee (NO HOT COFFEE AROUND MY BABY) I told her I would feel more comfortable bringing my baby to her. she copped an attitude with ME and stormed to the kitchen saying forget it. I came.upstairs and none of these turds will even see this baby the rest of the day, let alone hold her. Don't come to a new babys house thinking you get to make the rules. these turds are never allowed in my house again.