Advice needed!!! ‼️

Hey so I'm planning on getting married in November. September happens to be a month that I could possibly get pregnant. I've been told not to just in case I do get pregnant , that I might feel really sick .. and it would be to early to announce to everyone.

But I've been off BC since April and every month that goes by it sucks. Now there's a chance and I'm not sure if I should or not 😔

What should I do!!??? 😩