putting your partner before your children...

hi ladies, I'm Katie 23 from Liverpool mum to a 4 year old girl.. iv been on glow for over a year and just sit back and read and quite rarely comment on anything... however I came across a poll before asking who do you put first partner or children and I was shocked to see how many women chose their partner and also the comments I was reading 😐 so ofcourse i piped up and there didn't seem to be anyone agreeing with me saying I put my child first and find it crazy anybody would say differently. after discussing it with my sister she said it seems to be an American thing she has come across alot of similar views with American ladies... do you agree or is it just me 🤔😂