Unsupportive

So my baby shower is this Saturday and everyone that said was coming said they are busy. I'm not mad about it however I did get me down a little. Not just because of the shower but every since my wedding people have been so unsupportive they complain about everything and are so ungrateful when my husband and I go out our way for the events.

So to know it might only be a few family members makes me mad about wasting money for one and two having a baby shower at all. How did you all stay positive?