Alright, guys. I just need some comments and opinions about my situation right now. So, my boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago. We dated for seven months, we lived together and our relationship was perfect to me. We loved spending time with each other, even when we would just watch TV all the time. A couple times, he wanted to break up because he wasn't happy, I wouldn't do certain things in the bedroom, and he felt like he needed to entertain me all the time, even though he didn't. I wasn't being needy and never asked him to do anything for me. Once we broke up, he let me stay here until the end of the month. He offered to live in the basement for the time being so I could have the TV and the room and the nice bed. He's being super sweet and letting me take the extra mattress and other things he knows I need since I'm broke. I cried so much the next few days after we broke up. I had moments at work I would start crying and had to go hide in the bathroom for a while. Then, I had to force myself to pull myself together so I could find me and my kitty a place to live. I was updating him on my work schedule and how I was doing on finding a place out of consideration since I am living in his room. Now, I'm not sure if I am over the break up or if I just really forced a smile on my face that covers even my feelings from myself. Although, I am still very sad about it because it was definitely the most progressive relationship I had ever had; I met his parents, his niece loves me, I lived with him, so many things that made me think it would last. Anyways, he has texted me a few times since we broke up saying he was super sad and was afraid he was going to regret it and might lose me. One of the main reasons it was a final decision to break up was that he still had feelings for this girl who is apparently in a toxic relationship, but would never leave the guy. He also had never dated her. just hung out with her a couple of times. He is stuck on the what ifs in his life and is trying to figure everything out. Which I dont get because it's in the past and didn't happen that way for a reason. But I understand what he needs and want to give him that space. My question is, is it possible I could be completely over it already? I haven't even moved out yet. I feel like I needed this freedom. I was way too dependent on him; he was what my life was revolving around. And also, why is he texting me about still being super sad and how he hates it so much. I should be the one who is complaining about how sad I am. I didn't want to break up. I just need some comments and advice? Feel free to say anything.