I'm looking for any advice on how to tell my family I'm pregnant. Before you go there...I'm 25 and not a teenager. I have a 7 year old, am in a committed relationship, we are fine financially, and own our home.

The only downside is that we are doing things a bit backwards. We are not married or engaged yet and I am still in school (career change). Baby is due in May so I will have all of summer off and then only have 1 semester to go, so not a big deal.

My family is not religious so it's not the "you should be married thing" but more of "you're ruining your life by having another child." I get that I had a rough time being a teen mom the first time but this is different. We want our son to have a sibling and feel that we are ready for this next step in our lives. Why is it that just because I'm not fully established in my career yet that this is a bad thing? I wouldn't even have to work if I didn't want to...I haven't worked in 3 years.

I want my family to be happy for me. I'm over the moon! I just don't know how to face Mom and deal with that confrontation. Any advice is greatly appreciated!