ok so i just found out i was pregnant i'm 19 and within a couple of months my bf and i of about a year and a half will be 20, we are just starting college and getting our careers going, i don't live with my parents but he lives with his, were really confused on what to do because we don't think we're ready for a child and we're leaning to abortion but deep inside i feel like things might suck now and parents and people will judge us but we can make it through, this sounds dumb but we're planning on marrying each other in the future and have kids maybe we just have to do things backwards, also im very religious and know abortion is wrong i just have so many people waiting for me to fuck shit up and here i am fucking shit up, no judgement please, i just need help