Asking for advice

Hi guys!

So I'm 22, and i have never had a sexual intercourse. You might wonder why,... i just never felt ready for it. I recently met a great guy and i decided to try it because i actually want to. But it hurts so much that i asked him to stop. We tried twice, and i gave up both times. I'm still surprised that he still wants to hangout with me after that lol. It's been really embarrassing for me and he has been really nice and understanding about it.

What can i do to make this easier !? I know the pain is inevitable, i even tried getting drunk for the second trial but it still hurt like a b*tch!!

Does anyone has a suggestion for me?!

Thank you in advance :)