I feel under appreciated (explanation)

It took me 5 hours because I jave a kkd who kept pulling my attention elsewhere, taking out everything I put up, ran off with things I needed. The typical "mom's busy let me do things for attention". No she's not ill, she asked me to because I was already cleaning the toybox and she continued to complain that there's "no room", so I rearranged everything (like she asked). I was just trying to be nice, because I feel like she talks shit about me behind my back and infront of me (in another language I don't understand), so I was showing her I'm not lazy or any other thing she claims that I can't understand. I even talked to my own mom about it, she told me I did a fantastic job. I cried, because I didn't expect her to say anything. My SO also didn't say a word, about it, which aggrivates me. No appreciation at all!