whats wrong with me???

Question

ill be 37 weeks tomorrow, my rainbow baby and im so very excited. BUT i have been trying to get my husband to touch me but he wont. wont hold me in bed wont hold my hand in public or in the privacy of our own home. he dont even wanna have sex with me. im trying everything and he just keeps saying not right now. whats wrong with me? im already feeling bad about myself,this just adds on to it.

Answer

Mine was the same and finally admitted his fears of being intimate and hurting me and or the baby, triggering labor with sex, and over all just being nervous about getting me to the hospital in time even though he has denied all of those things up until now. I finally broke down crying because I'm super emotional all of the sudden and asked why he hates me and why he's so distant- that's when he admitted to his fears. Since then he's been more hands on but still no sex- apparently that's too anxiety causing for him still

Answer

Ask him, he might just be overwhelmed that the baby is going to be here soon. It's hard to say so don't beat yourself up just talk to him about it❤️ I hope for the best! Congrats on your rainbow baby

whats wrong with me???

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