My SO and I are TTC baby #2. When out of the blue a girl he slept with over three years ago (before we met) is messaging. She is claiming her daughter is his. Seriously. Why me? 😩

I don't want to rob a little girl of a father figure, but I'm expected to accept this huge sudden change. I'm so torn.

I know this may sound fucked up, but I asked him before we had our daughter, if he had other kids, and what the likelihood would be that he did. I was assured our daughter was not just my first child but his as well. I feel like that was ripped away from me. I didn't sign up to be a stepparent. That is in no way shape or form what I want.