Was this rape?

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Maybe 2ish years ago I was super drunk and my boyfriend at the time brought me home. I was wasted and all giggly and I was that embarrassing drunk girl. I was coherent, but definitely so drunk I was ready to fall asleep and the room was spinning. I guess he started to get horny and he kept asking if I was okay and I was too tired to reply so I just laid in bed like a mess. He put it inside and kept going and was asking are you okay? Although I could tell what was going on, I for some reason was not responding to him asking this. I don't know why. He was my boyfriend so it never really scared me that he did that, but looking back on it I think it's messed up. He finished and I never replied to him asking if I was okay. What are your thoughts? I was coherent enough to understand what was going on, so I'm really torn up.

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Silence doesn't equal consent. You were drunk and he took advantage of you. Yes that's rape.

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Yes it is.

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That is rape, you didn't consent and he had no idea whether you wanted it or not

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Sounds similar to something that happened to me. It's fucked up he did that, you weren't responding and definitely were not visibly into it. He should have felt like he raped you. It is technically rape as there was no consent, but it's up to you how you view it. 
I was actually passed out and my roommate told me that my ex had sex with me. I was more pissed at her because I knew we were both so drunk that he was probably nearly blacked out. He actually asked me if he had raped me, and I told him no even though he obviously had. He was a good guy, was gonna be a cop at the time (the altruistic kind, not the racist power-hungry kind) and I just felt like he didn't need that on his conscience.
It's up to you how you choose to process what happened and if you choose to file charges. ❤️

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I dont think in this situation he knew it was, guys are stupid and they don't know what's going on in your head, but In your mind you can consider that rape. but if i were you i would forgive him, at least from how you worded it he seems to not have had an evil intent on taking you ya know, just talk to him about it next time if you're not comfortable with having sex. I've been in your position before and ik you blame yourself for not speaking but you can't change it, only work on it.

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anytime you question if it was rape, that means you weren't certain of the sexual act and that means it was rape.

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Yes, that is rape. Silence is not consent.

Was this rape?

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