I don't want my brothers girlfriend or her kids to come visit me while I'm in the hospital🙊 I feel guilty for saying this but I really can't stand her! Everything always has to be about her for example my nephews 1st birthday was April 9th my mothers birthday is April 18th instead of doing his birthday celebration the weekend before or the weekend after his birthday she is putting it off till the 18th and plans to have a massive party for him knowing its my mothers birthday 😐 she does this kind of stuff all of the time. She doesn't watch her children and frankly I just don't want to deal with her that day.... I don't know how to handle it tho. Am I wrong for feeling like this