So right now my partner for almost 3 years that I deeply care about is working super hard everyday for the past month. It's been super hard for me cuz i have attention issues(what I believe are my issues of my very sad child hood past) anyways I'm really trying hard to cope with the pressure of my relationship (by the way he's leaving to Oregon to work for 14 days on Sunday) and the pressures my family passes down to me. I want to feel loved and appreciated but there's no time for my loved ones to show me. My man and I have only been talking through txt and since he's so broke he can't get pay his phone we only talk when he has wifi, which is when he's home. So about twice a day we send short messages which consist of a goodmorning blah blah blah and at the end of the day a goodnight blah blah blah . And it's getting to me this my first real relationship and I have a serious problem with being able to stay strong and focused with my own things I should do for myself. I tend to think that if I'm single I won't have to worry about no one else but myself but I don't want to chance losing my man. I wish I could find some type of middle ground or a good class that will teach me how to be independent without being a emotional wreck while feeling loved and confident in my relationship.. I'm I asking for to much ?