Animals first...

I am so desperate right now. My family is upset with me and so is my husband's family. I desperatley need to see a doctor for lack of a period for 5 months. I have wisdoms coming in that are causing me terrible pain. I am going blind it feels like and I need to see an eye doctor. I don't have visual or dental insurance. I do have medical, but they won't pay anything till my deductible is met. I haven't been because my animals keep running into problems that they have to see a vet for and my husband and I put them first. Our old boy now has 3 tumors and a dental diseas that will be treated and removed thus coming Wednesday. It is going to cost us about $400-$600 to treat him. My puppy also just got a $166 treatment for her elbow. They are mad because they want me to get help and I want it to, but my animals come first and I can't afford to help them and me. We are ttc, and my period disappeared. Not pregnant yet and not on birth control. I am desperate for some advice on how to go about getting me some help? I don't know of anywhere in town that offers low to free help. I live in a cheapskate town.