Should I tell him?

Question

So I feel like there's a chance I might be pregnant. It's too early to take a test but I really think that there is a chance. 
I'm only 18 (almost 19 next month) and he's 21 (almost 22 next month) and I know that's a bit young but I think if I am pregnant I will be keeping the baby. 
I believe that yes, it is a big step and would change my life forever but I know that I am mature enough to handle having a child. Even if if may be tough considering my age. 
He and I have a pretty amazing relationship not perfect because if it was then it wouldn't be a real relationship, let's be honest. 
He and I live together with his parents in their very nice home with full support, but, what I'm EXTREMELY nervous about is telling my boyfriend that there is a chance that I'm pregnant. I'm on the fence about telling him now that theres chance or waiting and telling him when and if I find out that I am pregnant.  
I asked him a while ago if he would leave me if I got pregnant and he said he wouldn't but he doesn't want a kid right now. But I feel as though that feeling might change if you're put in the actual situation and also about the fact that I would WANT to keep it. 
Please help me come to a decision because I'm scared to tell either way. 
Thanks!!!

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I feel like you should tell him when you know FORSURE!!! I'm always thinking I'm pregnant and I'm 18 as well lol but then I take a test and it comes out negative or I get my period so you should wait to see if you miss your period and tell him that your cycle is late and your going to test. Just a suggestion

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My period is 5 days late, I haven't tested yet (buying one tomorrow morning) but I told my boyfriend when my period was 2 days late and asked his opinions on when to buy a test etc. I feel like he should know but maybe wait to see if you miss your period, rather than worrying him for nothing. In saying that, if you really wanna get it off your chest and talk to him about it then go for it!

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Any doubt talk him, tell him it's too early to tell now but as soon as you know for sure you have to tell him

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Or just maybe like talk about the good parts of having a child

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Even though he said he isn't ready doesn't mean he won't be grateful for you having his human being(s)💏

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Um maybe drop hints

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i unfortunately had a miscarriage (didn't know i was pregnant) i never told my boyfriend since it never had to be an issue since i didn't know in the first place.
a month later both of my friends found out they were pregnant (yup my life) and i told my boyfriend and you know how you try and strike up a conversation about it the what ifs what would we do..his straight up answer was "don't even joke about that" ever since then i never mentioned anything or unless i would be 1000% sure i was i'm not saying anything. that was also 2 years ago and things have changed on our future  since then

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I am the type of person who would rather know of anything before hand than to be sprung on that you are pregnant, that way you can have a plan or at least he can start thinking things out but that's me :)

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be honest and say that you have a suspicion you might be pregnant and figure it out from there

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Don't tell him till you take the test and confirm it

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