Immature boys?!

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Okay so I'm 21, and I had sex with this 18 yr old today (literally was in and out of his room in 5 min lmao) and when he finished he noticed that there was some weird consistency of discharge on him, and made a huge deal of it. I'm pretty sure it was from me & im assuming I have a yeast infection I didn't know about. But yeah he made me feel so fucking awful and ashamed saying like " I'm so weirded out" and saying he was gonna throw away the towel e used to clean off and shit. I know logically he's a fucking child and I shouldn't be upset, but it made me super self conscious & now I'm kinda scared to have sex again, even though this is 1/100s of times I've slept with someone. Ugh. Has anyone had this happen wdischarge or a shitty reaction?!

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I've never had a situation like this but he s a inmature baby. hes going to be very  lonely if he's trying to find a girl with no normal bodily functions.

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He is just self-conscious about himself, trust me I had a guy that I was doing stuff with and after I did stuff, he found a bottle of cold meds that my doctor gave me, once he saw those meds he called me dirty and told me I had a std and all this stuff, it hurt a lot that he would say stuff like that but I learn that it's because he doesn't like him self and he is not mature yet. Don't let that put you down.

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Discharge happens. It could be a yeast infection, or I could not. If you feel one coming on, call your dr and get some Diflucan. As for this asshole, don't give him a second thought. He'll learn as he gets older (I hope), but for now he doesn't appreciate women for what we are. Take it as a lesson for what you don't want in a partner, and try to move on. There's nothing gross or disgusting about you or what happened.
And for anyone who wants to shame you about having sex outside of a relationship, they are entitled to their opinion; but unless they plan to sleep with you, their opinions don't mean squat. Be safe and be you.

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My first time was like this. He was 16, I was a month away from being 16, he'd had previous gfs, didn't bother me, waited till I was ready to have sex, did and the normal happened when you lose it. He freaked out and made me feel absolutely awful and dirty, even though it was only on the condom. He did apologise with his behaviour but it totally put me a step back and I felt even more self conscious than I did so ended it. These things happen, guys just don't really have a filter or know how to handle it.

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I've never had this happen... Sounds like he's still a child.

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Sounds like he's not your boyfriend? My suggestion is having sex with people who love you and who you can trust. Then they won't treat you like shit.

Immature boys?!

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