I hate when people say ......

I hate when ppl ( family ) say

" take care of yourself so you have a healthy baby " I find this very rude ! OF COURSE I'm " taking care of myself" WTF. It's as if they are insinuating that if I don't have a healthy baby that I would be somehow to blame. We can only do so much ( eating right, exercising, drinking lots of water, staying away from harmful things like alcohol and drugs) and the rest is in gods hands ! Why the hell is it always Mexican side of the family saying these things to me in Spanish . It's not like I have a history of reckless behavior toward myself in the past and now that I'm pregnant they feel like they should say something. It's SO annoying. I feel like telling them to shut up I don't have the word stupid written on my forehead.