!!!!!Sex for the first time!!!! Need advice!!!!!

Okay ladies. I'm getting married on Saturday, which means something for me - I'm gunna have sex.

Both me and my fiancé are virgins, and though i have asked my mom about it, she hasn't given me much to go on as to how it was for her the first time. She did mention though that she didn't feel ANYTHING, let alone orgasm during sex for the first two years of her marriage to my biological father. So I'm paranoid, because what if that runs in the family?! What if I just can't get there?

She also told me that she didn't experience any pain, but that was because she'd had a bicycle accident when she was a kid. So ladies, I need your experiences, comfort and advice.

I love my fiancé dearly and I want to be able to give him the satisfaction of pleasing me, and I want that myself.

We've discussed what we want and what we're okay with and looked up different methods to try and make it more comfortable for me, including purchasing water based lubricant.

Please comment and tell me about your first time, and how long it was till you started to enjoy it. If you have any tips please let me know! Thank you so much!