Who is wrong?

My mom and I have always had a rocky relationship but I tried to move past it. (She was abusive) I lived with her until my daughter was almost a year old. One day I just kinda couldn't take it anymore. Living with someone you don't talk to is extremely difficult. She loves my daughter, just not me. We moved out and she hasn't seen us in 9 months. She has texted me 5 times and never called. She somehow broke into my phone and was able to read my messages, see pictures, calls, etc. it's very illegal. I confronted her about it and she denied it but I have proof. Anyways, she has turned my whole family against me saying all these horrible things. Yet everyone keeps saying how I'm wrong for keeping MY daughter away. I told her that if she admitted to what she did and explained why, I would let her see my daughter. She denied it again. We left state last week and will be gone for 6 months. I texted her for my brothers number so I could see him before we left and she said "I wish you would let me see her before you leave but I know you won't"

My response was

"You don't want to have a relationship with me but you want to have one with my daughter. I get that you love her but I can't stand seeing my mother love someone I made when she doesn't even love me."

She said "ok"

She pretty much admitted that she doesn't want anything to do with me.. everyone says she cries when someone talks about my daughter and she still has pictures of her and all this stuff but.. what about me?

I think at this point I'm going to block her number and forget I have a mother. I just want to hear others opinions

Edit: she has 4 kids. I'm the youngest. She's extremely close to her oldest two. The next is my brother, they aren't close because he was a drug addict and a criminal (not anymore) but they still keep in contact. Then there's me, everyone said I was always the favorite because I was the "baby" and got the most presents for Christmas and the most expensive ones. Maybe she was trying to over compensate for the fact that she never had a relationship with me?

She has hugged me 5 times that I can remember. Never asked me how my day was. One time I went to my dads and it took her a FUCKING WEEK to call him and ask him where I was. We lived in a small house!!!