would you allow?

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your boyfriend/fiancé to go camping with his friends?? 
like we use to fight over it all the time, and then he said he wasn't gonna go anymore because he wanted us to work out. but now he's starting to go again. 
and i've learned to just keep my mouth shut and save a fight even tho i do care.

Accepted Answer

I wouldn't "allow" anything because I'm not his mother. I don't get to tell him where he goes and what he does because he's not a kid.

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Urmm I don't see any problem in letting him go camping. My guy go on trips with his friends once in a month. I never had problems with that. Let your guy have some space and time for himself. He needs friends too. My boyfriend feels really attached to me and he often says he's happy that I give him freedom. That makes him respect me even more. 😊

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1. Why can't you go?
2. His friends? Are they girls? Couples? 
3. If it's just guys I wouldn't mind!!! He needs time and space like we need our time and space.

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unless he has cheated in the past and you're just secretly worried he is doing it again I don't see what would be wrong with him hanging out with friends...

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I was always told, never to tell a man what to do, and never let him tell you what you can do either. If you want to work out, I would suggest letting him go out with his friends occasionally to camp so he can have some guy time. You wouldn't like it if be stopped you from hanging out with your girl friends. Everyone needs some time with friends.

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Umm why not?? Your not his mother

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If I had to allow my boyfriend to go out with his friends I wouldn’t have one. Being controlling gets you no where and the other person feels trapped.

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when bae wants to go camping, we all pack up and go. We have two friends, Tyler and Colin. Tyler just got a new girlfriend, so he wouldn't want to leave her alone for a weekend, and Colin just married my best friend Harley, who just had her and Colin's baby last week. But if the boys want to go, they automatically know that we're all packing up and going too. hahah

would you allow?

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