Pissed off -am I wrong?

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I've been so moody and irritated lately. Everything bugs me. I'm annoyed at the fact that my mom offered my grandpa MY car for the weekend when I already told her I have plans. I'm supposed to help my girl friend move tomorrow and then spend the night at my boyfriends. Now this ruins my entire weekend. I can't even go to my boyfriends tonight because the cars is needed tomorrow morning. She offered me her car tomorrow night to go to my boyfriends but said I need to be home by 9am so she can go out. Like no, I fully said I had plans this weekend, and she didn't even ASK for my car she offered it up anyways. I'm beyond pissed off and just needed to rant. Is it wrong for me to be pissed off?

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Yes you are wrong. It's to help family and that's more important than going to your boyfriends house. Family isn't around forever. Believe me one day they will be ther and the next they will be gone. Be happy to do what you can for them now as im sure they were probably there for you growing up. And IF your mom is paying for your car then she has every right to offer without asking.

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I'd do it for my granda if he was still around. 
Can you not get a bus to your boyfriends place if it's that important?  Why can't you be back for 9 am?

Unless the car is truly yours you don't have any right to be upset. 
If you've bought it pay for petrol insurance tax and maintenance then it's yours and your choice 
But if it's your mum paying for it it belongs to her and she doesn't need your permission.

I think this post portrays you as a bit of a lazy brat and you need to wind your neck in. There are plenty of other solutions that allow you to keep your plans and also give gramps some freedom.

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I'd be pissed too

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My question is who paid for the car, insurance, gas etc? If the answer is her then sorry you can be pissed but it's not yours it's hers to offer up without your permission. If it's you that paid for everything then absolutely have the right to be pissed and say something, but it is nice to let your grandpa use it. He's probably done a lot for you over the years.

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Respect your elders. Sounds like you live in her home, so really she makes the rules. And regardless it's your grandfather, is it really so bad helping him out?

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It depends strongly on your age and on who bought, insures, and maintains your car.  If you pay for everything

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You sound immature and selfish

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Why can't your bf/friends pick you up?

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Depends on how old you are

And if it was me I would cancel my plans because my grandfather is my everything and family is more important to me then anyone else.

Pissed off -am I wrong?

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