Having a problem feeling an orgasm.....

Two years ago in march, I was raped at the age of 17. I got beyond drunk and blacked out, that's when it happened. I met my husband later at the end of that year when I turned 18. When we first were dating and having sex I could never be able to feel myself have an orgasm, I would ask him if I did and he would say that I didn't. We've been married a little over a year and a half now and just recently he would say that he would feel me orgasm, but I however still can't feel the feeling of the orgasm and still end up asking. I've been thinking/wondering if because of me being blacked out when I was raped that caused me not to be able to feel when I orgasm. Does anyone else have/had this problem? If y'all had this problem and was able to fix it, can y'all help me? I'm so lost and confused. I hear other women talk about how intense their orgasms are and it makes me feel let's out cause I've only just started getting them and I can't and don't know what they feel like.....