Need serious advice. Ladies Help Me!!!!!

So tonight my husband and I are in the middle of oral and I am cuffed to the bed ready for whatever comes next when my SO pulls away and decides he wants to go to sleep. We just miscarried a little over one week ago and I am sensitive and depressed. I offered to buy condoms but he is against it. I stepped out of my comfort zone to please him and now I am laying here silently crying while he sleeps. Update: So after a serious yelling match he finally came out and said that he was hurting about our loss. Now that it is out in the open we both cried and we are not ok right now but we will be. Thank you for your comments.