excited and nervous

according to my two period trackers af was due between the 17th and the 19th and she's a no show! no cramping or spotting or any signs that she is near. I have however had nausea and vomiting and a tight full feeling in my pelvic area without bloating not to mention the tender boobs. now to find a way to the store for a test. hubby doesn't want to get one lol I think he's in denial cuz we've had so many issues with chemical pregnancy and false positives. I'm excited and want to surprise him with the bfp we've been waiting for.

on a side note I would appreciate some surprise ideas as I've never done one