Here's what I see

There are lots of conversations that end because two people have opposing views and one or both is acting arrogantly. Two people should be able to share their beliefs no matter how opposite without one of them getting pissed off because the other is "not listening" when they measure whether someone is listening by whether or not the drop their beliefs right then and there and start agreeing with them. That's not how the world works, or should work.

1 - people are born trans.

2 - I don't believe they are.

1 - Well, A, B, and C.

2 - Great, but I see it my way because...

1 - ugh I hate talking with people like you. I offer all kinds of evidence/reasons and you have your head so far up your a** you won't ever change your mind.

OR

1 - people are born trans.

2 - I don't believe they are

1 - Well, A, B, and C.

2 - ok, well D, E, and F

1 - But what about ____

2 - ugh I hate talking with people like you. I offer all kinds of evidence/reasons and you still won't change your mind.

How about we just realize it's not about changing other people's minds? They can change their mind. You can't. It's all sharing points of view not getting pissed off because someone continues to disagree with you.

Don't you see how arrogant that is?