Less sexually attracted. 😕

Ladies I would some adivce.. I care for  my bf a lot and I do my best to take care of him but its hard to take care of his sexual needs (and mine) when he isnt as attractive as he used to be and I dont mean physically I mean mentally and/or emotionally. There are times when he makes me feel like the man in the relationship or sometimes his mother and its not a turn on. I feel like he has insecurities he didnt have when we started dating and they make him afraid of certain things, I feel like I have to baby him sometimes. In the beginning he was so confident and manly and we didnt have any problems in the bedroom but now most of the time I dont even want sex at all because im not attracted like I used to be but I still care about him and want to be with him... How do i go about getting back that spark??