Sir Bed Wetter..

soo met this guy a couple weeks ago through a good friend of mine, been on some dates only ever kissed. but then last night he was out with a bunch of his friends and invited me to meet them. they were all really messed up already and I was 100% sober due to antibiotics. And at the end he asked if he could stay over.. like hella yes who doesn't love cuddles.. well i tell ya... I woke up laying in a puddle of his urine.. I got up showered and went and slept on the couch cuzz I really didn't feel like waking him up to have this awkward convo at 5 am... So I left him sleeping then it came time I needed to go to work so I woke him up, he got up put his pants and hoodie on... over his soaked underwear and shirt... then shook my blanket out to cover it...... What the actual f***!!! I always said he's a rare breed.. I know that for sure now.. What would you do if this were you? I haven't brought it up and I don't really want to.. but how do I look at him the same... or can you ? side note.. we haven't had sex and he's also 30... not like he's fresh 18 and new to the drinking game.. sad thing is I actually wanted it to go somewhere 😩🤔 ....... get over it? or get over him?