Spiders ruin everything! 😫

So I'm 10 weeks pregnant and have not had a sex drive at all! So I was finally in the mood today and we were going at it and I see a spider crawling across the pillow a couple inches from my husbands head. I freaked out and jumped off him. He was so confused, all I said was spider...he turned his head and just sees a black spider next to his face and jumps back from it. I find a shoe and make him kill it...I'm extremely terrified of spiders doesn't matter the size, needless to say the mood is dead...along with the spider...