frustration

its really sad that me and my boyfriend don't even talk about anything other than whose gonna clean what room in someone else's house because they dont pick up after themselves 6 adults and 4 kids and literally only 2 of us adults (my boyfriend and I) pick up after everyone and clean the entire house for it to be a mess by the end of the day and watch their kids while theyre home to watch them their selves and get 0 appreciation its really putting a damper on us trying to have a baby we never get alone time and when we do were so tired that we just want to sleep