When i try and talk about sex with my husband, he gets annoyed and likes to change the subject as soon as he can. We're 25 and have been together 4 years but he hates the sex talk.

Guys say women try to avoid sex in marriage, in my case he is the one who always has a headache or is tired or doesnt feel good. He has time and ambition after work to play video games and watch tv for 3 hours but too tired for sex. He also says hes been sleeping in so thats why we havnt done it, but he has time to masterbate every morning. he isnt cheating or anything but idk whats going on with him im starting to get super annoyed. i have a low sex drive as it is so if i start self pleasuring we wont be having Sex at all 😒