I wouldn't. Sex is an important part of my relationship. I want to know we're compatible in the bedroom the same way I want to know we're on the same page when it comes to finances and raising kids. I'm not interested in getting to know someone after I'm already married to them.

You have too test drive a car before you buy it!

Nope. Not because I couldnt bit because I wouldn't want to. Sex is an important part of emotionally and physically connecting for me. Not only that but im not huge on marriage. So beong with someone who not only wanted to not have sex but also it was required for them to be married to do it, Wouldnt be a right relationship for me.

My personal experience is my husband wanted to wait, that was a serious struggle, but I believe that now we are married sex is one of the many benefits added to the marriage. not just marriage because they were great in bed. if all the relationship was built off was great sex then it will probably end with someone leaving out of sexual boredom. Where as my marriage is built on our love for each other and God. I know that even if we fail to have sex for a while he will always be there for me and won't go after another girl just because our sex is lacking.

Nope. I really like sex, and I want to make sure there's a physical chemistry in our sex life or the relationship is dead to me romantically. If they want to wait until marriage, which I'm not interested in at the moment, then my stipulation would be that I get to have sex with someone else until then🤷🏻♂️. It's their waiting game not mine. Don't make me play too.

This reminds me of the time we talked about the guy with 2 penises. Imagine finding that out after your wedding day?

Hell no. What if you married them and the sex was completely awful? Not all sex is fixable- no f'n way

My husband and I were both virgins when we got married. We've been together 10 years married 7. Our sex life is AMAZING! It worked out for us. But I get where other people are coming from.

Then I'd never have sex. 😳 If someone asks me to marry them, I'm running the other fucking direction. 😂 Marriage is a no go for me. I'm gooooddd.

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For everyone that is sexually active, would you be okay being in a long term relationship w/ someone that wanted to wait till marriage?

Tyra • Sat, Sep 30 • Fluent in profanity & sarcasm | Aggressively positive♥️

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