we told my MIL that we were going on a trip and she said we could stay with her. we thought oh great that way we can save money on a hotel and she lives by where we were going anyway. we reminded her about it 3 or 4 times and she said okay that's fine. the day of the trip we go all the way down there with the intent of staying with my husbands mom. we get there and she's gone. so we text her and tell her that we were there. she texts back and keeps saying why are you here? I said because we had plans on staying the night? she texts and says no your pulling my leg? I said no we had plans to stay at your house! well my husband calls her and says that we were really down there and we had arrangements to stay at her house