Birthday rant

need to vent a little. so it's my birthday. yesterday we had a little gathering at my moms, food drinks you know. Well I felt like there was nothing but negatives there. So when we got home I was looking forward to spend some time with my man, but nope he falls asleep. He has specifically told me we ain't doing shit for my birthday.... Okay, so well for his birthday he had to work, yes I grabbed him some gifts but before he went in to work he dropped a bombshell on me saying he's opening a Snapchat. He said that he is a grown man and that he pays the bills around here (we live together 2 kids included). It's not that I don't trust him, we've just had issues before in the past with that Snapchat shit... So I got upset and didn't really bother to pay much attention to him anymore before he left to work. Honestly I feel like this is revenge, he may always be at work busting ass but I am the one busting ass at work, school, taking care of my kids, home and still try to be a kick as wife. Well nope, I get taken for granted I know I do. I'm getting so sick and tired of it. I just want to feel appreciated sometimes . I am so fed up!!