Dr. Told me I'm going to miscarry

I would love to hear some hope on this part of my story. I have two kids and zero experience with miscarriage or something wrong in pregnancy. I found out I was pregnant the end of August. But bc I'm still nursing my daughter, this baby was a surprise, I couldn't give them a last period date, it just did not line up. So they went off my positive pregnant test to tell me how far I am which is 8 weeks.

I have had 3 dr apts and each one was way to soon to see the baby. So they told me I just found out really early. I had another apt Friday and my dr saw the baby for the first time but wouldn't call it a baby. She called it a cluster of cells bc she couldn't see a heart beat.

So she sent me to have a fancy ultrasound and they didn't see a heartbeat also and measured me at 6.5 weeks. With my first two, I didn't go to the dr till I was 10 weeks. Can't it be to soon at 6.5 weeks to see the heartbeat?

I've had some friends tell me their friends babies didn't find a heart beat till almost 9 weeks.

This dr has given me options about how to go in and have he baby removed, but if I'm going to miscarry, then I want my

Body to do that. I don't want to eject a baby that could be okay.

I have no spotting or pain. I've talked to friends that have miscarried to see what I should expect. But I really want to hang on to hope that the dr is wrong.

I really don't want to loose all my

Hope and just sit around with this weight hanging on me.

Does anyone have a story kinda like this that ended up being good in the end? Bc this news and stress isn't good for me. She said I should miscarry within 10 days and that makes me incredibly sad. I've been crying for 2 days and nothing has physically happened.

And I really thank you for reading, but if you had this happen and it did end in a miscarriage I'm sorry. I am trying to find any hope from other stories.

Thank you.

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